Married life

Everything on this page needs both players to already be married.

Shared home

/marry sethome
/marry home

One shared location per couple, either partner can set or use it. Cleared automatically on divorce.

Teleport requests

/marry tp
/marry tpaccept

/marry tp asks your partner, /marry tpaccept teleports you to them. Blocked with a message if the partner has their tp toggle off.

Couple chat

/marry chat <message>
/marry chat

/marry chat <message> always sends one line to your partner privately, regardless of the toggle. /marry chat with no message flips the toggle: once it's on, everything you type in normal chat goes to your partner alone instead of the public chat, until you toggle it off again. It starts off, so getting married never takes over anyone's chat. Couple chat grabs the message before chat plugins format it, so a chat plugin does not also post it publicly.

Gifts

/marry gift

Gives the item in your hand to your partner, if they're online, within gift.max-distance, and have gifts toggled on.

A kiss

/marry kiss

Heart particles and a sound when within 3 blocks of your partner, on a cooldown from kiss.cooldown-seconds.

The toggles

/marry toggle chat
/marry toggle tp
/marry toggle gift

Each one is personal: turning your tp toggle off stops others' teleport requests from reaching you, it doesn't affect requests you send. tp and gift start on, chat starts off.

Attending someone else's ceremony

/marry attend <church>

Seats you as a guest at a church with a ceremony running, up to seats.max-guests. Sneaking, dying, or walking out of the church region stands you back up automatically, and every guest is unseated once the ceremony ends. See The ceremony for the rest of what happens during one.

Anniversaries

Handled automatically, nothing to run. See The ceremony for how the reward pool works.